Pre-Orgasmic? There's excellent professional help to be found!

Alas I have both understood that and also personally met with women who are "pre - orgasmic" ≈ yet to have a orgasm!

This isn't uncommon and there is help to be found! Women in long term loving relationships that have enjoyed sex and Orgasms aren't necessary to enjoy sex but most of these women have been wondering about and perhaps longing for the experience of the "Big O"!

My advice is to get in touch with a specialist and/or read up on the subject!
There are Sexologists that specialise in the female orgasms and masturbation like
Betty Dodson and Doctor Ruth! Both of these are renowned and scientifically acknowledged specialists that have heavily influenced their fields!

There have been expressions mentioned as "pre - orgasmic" ≈ yet to have a orgasm! This isn't uncommon and there is help to be found! I have come to know a therapist/Sexologist in Copenhagen - that similar to Betty Dodson arranges - Masturbation circles!

I myself have partaken in a masturbation seminar that ended in a ≈ 50-70 person "group" masturbation!

Quite a interesting but definitely a inspiring and educational experience!

Orgasms can be so much more than just clitoris orgasms! I have read that women can experience several different kinds of orgasms!

Different kinds of stimulation leads to different kinds of orgasms: Anal, Breasts, Cervix, Clitoris, G-spot, Vaginal, Mental and full body orgasms!

I myself have experienced giving women:  Anal, Breasts, Clitoris, G-spot, Vaginal, Mental and full body orgasms!

I have been surprised and amazed by having women orgasming from: Mental stimulation alone, Only Anal and from having the entire body massaged and stimulated, most erogenous zones except for the genitals and anus - and orgasming from it!

But - then - I'm an old fart - child of the Hippie generation and grew up during the Sexual Revolution! So my and my lovers views on sexuality, probably differs from most!

What I am trying to say is: Don't worry Dear! There are multiple approaches and ways to "reach the big O"! And I warmly recommend you that you try as many of them as possible!

Try Tantra massage, Anal massage, Nuru massage! Try Anal penetration, double penetration, try out different kinks and fetishes!

Bondage can be done - "pretty vanilla"! And you and your partner/lover/spouse can draw straws, flip a coin or roshambo about who gets to tie up the other person first! Then you switch!
So the person trying tying up first is well aware that whatever they do to the helpless tied up person - they will most likely be experiencing themselves later!

Always read up on safety and health when it comes to anal, bondage and all aspects OF Fetishes/Kinks and BDSM!

Remember that everything must ALWAYS BE: SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL!

Within these limits - I warmly recommend that you allow yourselves to "brainstorm" openly, freely and without inhibitions! Be brutally honest and open about your dreams, fantasies and things that you are curious about!

You can unlock your innermost hidden sides and find totally unexpected possibilities and adventures!

Dare to bare: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually!

Dare to both figuratively speaking and literally "stand bared, naked, exposed and vulnerable - perhaps by choice helpless" before your lover!

Dare to relinquish all control, to totally submit yourself to someone else - at least for a moment!

But ALWAYS have a safe word and have a good LOOOONG discussion before and agree on the limits!

Make sure that you have complete clarity on the limits make a precise agreement that is fair, honest and with reciprocity! So that it is Egalitarian and equal! And first of all Safe, Sane and Consensual!

Then as long as everything is both Safe, Sane and Consensual and also fair, eqal, honest open and with greatest reciprocity possible! Then I warmly recommend exploring all possible aspects of sexuality and sexual pleasure!

I am a fiercely sex positive - pro-sexuality advocate and encourage all forms of sexuality that is: Safe, Sane and Consensual! And the FULL EXPLORATION of YOUR OWN and YOUR LOVERS/BELOVEDS - Sexuality and sexual preferences, including possible fantasies, dreams, curiosities, kinks and fetishes!
Without inhibitions, preconceptions, stereotypes, and being held back by Anxieties and moral hysteria!

Sexuality and Intimacy between two consenting adults where everything is Safe, Sane and Consensual - is nobody else's business!

(If someone else, uninvited sticks their noses in - They should mind their own business and sort out their own unfulfilling lives!)!

It is a truly wonderful journey and I personally believe a important and strong foundation to build a strong and lasting foundation for a long, loving relationship!

Life is too short for not to live it to the fullest and not exploring as many possibilities as possible!

Have fun kids! YOU have a excellent adventure ahead of you! And if you get stuck? Then there is plenty of help to be found!

If I myself was younger I'd love to study to become a sexologist like Betty Dodson, Doctor Ruth and Nina Hartley and become a "Orgasm consultant/therapist" - BUT alas I now feel too old for such studies and must therefore settle for offering my "layman's services" to friends and acquaintances!

ENJOY! LOVE AND HUGS!
Old fart - Swedish Bob…