Women never thought that MEN WOULD BE HAPPIER ALONE - BUT Reality proves them WRONG!

 I must say that I find it encouraging and definitely  at least in part restores my hope for humanity! To hear a dispassionate, objective analysis of the factors: - WHY MEN ARE OPTING OUT AND behind phenomenons like the: - "Red Pill", Drizzle Drizzle, MGTOW, Incels and other Norm-breaking - "Men's movements"... 

A WISE AND DEAR - Female friend, only a few years older than me: TOLD ME in 1984 - IN MY LATE TEENS! 

SHE SAID THAT: IN HER NOT So Humble Opinion... MOST OF THE CONFLICTS, CONFUSION, DISPUTES AND MISUNDERSTANDINGS BETWEEN CONTEMPORARY WOMEN AND MEN - OF MOST AGES! 

WAS BECAUSE: - "WOMEN HAVE HAD THEIR LIBERATION, FROM THEIR TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES, BUT NOT THE MEN, THE SO CALLED SEXUAL REVOLUTION WAS OVER BEFORE IT REACHED THEM"! 

THESE SENTENCES - HAVE "Rumbled Arond" IN MY SUBCONCIOUS SINCE!"! 

AND NOT UNTIL RECENTLY - AFTER HAVING BEEN ACTIVE IN SEXUAL RIGHTS POLITICS AND: - "BODY AUTONOMY, HUMAN/REPRODUCTIVE AND QUEER RIGHTS ORGANIZATIONS" FOR DECADES! 

HAVE I REALISED THAT: THE SO CALLLED: "SEXUAL REVOLUTION" OF THE 60's & 70's - BASICALLY WERE NO SUCH THING

BECAUSE IT AFFECTED AND LIBERATED "ONLY/MAINLY" THE: CIS/HETERO/MONO/VANILLA WOMEN!

IT WAS SIMPLY THE CULMINATION OF THE SUFFRAGETTE/WOMENS RIGHTS MOVEMENT - LIBERATING THE:  CIS/HETERO/MONO/VANILLA WOMEN - FROM THEIR SOCIETAL TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES, SUBSERVIENCE AND DEPENDENCE ON MEN! 

AND NO ONE ELSE! QUEER/TRANS/POLY WOMEN AND EVERY OTHER GENDER WAS NOT LIBERATED FROM THEIR TRADITIONAL ROLES, SOCIETAL NORMS, CRITICISM, PERSECUTION OR NEEDS TO PROTECT THEMSELVES FROM SOCIETY! 

THE SO CALLED: "SEXUAL REVOLUTION" OF THE 60's & 70's - basically WAS NOT - IT WAS THE GOAL OF WOMEN'S LIB! 

VERY IMPORTANT AND NECESSARY INDEED! AND LONG OVERDUE! 

BUT I  FIND IT SADDENING THAT THE FIRST AND SECOND WAVE FEMINISTS - HAD ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST IN OR SOLIDARITY WITH: QUEER/TRANS/POLY WOMEN AND EVERY OTHER GENDER WERE NOT LIBERATED! 

AND IT IS NOT DUE TO BEING UNAWARE! AS EMMA GOLDMAN (1869 – May 1940) ANARCHIST REVOLUTIONARY, POLITICAL ACTIVIST, AND WRITER  STATED: 

- "I demand the independence of woman, her right to support herself; to live for herself; to love whomever she pleases, or as many as she pleases. I demand freedom for both sexes, freedom of action, freedom in love and freedom in motherhood." 

SO! ALREADY AT THE TURN OF THE 19TH CENTURY AWARENESS WAS THERE ABOUT BOTH HOMOSEXUALITY AND POLYAMOURY! 

BUT STILL THE FEMINISTS OF THE 1960's & 1970's IGNORED EVERYONE ELSE THAN CIS/HETERO/MONO/VANILLA WOMEN! 

TO THAT EXTENT THAT, IN TODAY'S SOCIETY, WE EVEN HAVE: - "T.E.R.F's" = Trans Excluding Radical Feminists! PROUDLY AND WITHOUT SHAME, SHOUTING THAT: - "TRANS WOMEN ARE NOT WOMEN AND WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A PENIS"... - SIC! 

DESPITE THE FACT THAT LEGISLATORS AND SOCIETY AT LARGE RECOGNISE: TRANS WOMEN AS  WOMEN AND TRANS MEN AS MEN! GIVING THEM LEGALLY PROTECTED RIGHTS TO LEGALLY CHANGE THEIR GENDER AND HENCEFORTH OFFICIALLY BEING ADRESSED AS THEIR CORRECT GENDER AND BEING LEGALLY PROTECTED FROM MISGENDERING IN MANY COUNTRIES!  

AND ALSO: IGNORING NON-NORMATIVE PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS, FÖR INSTANCE BY: INSISTING ON CALLING 

- "DOMESTIC VIOLENCE", THEY INSIST ON CALLING IT: - "MEN'S VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN"! 

THEREBY TRIVIALISING AND RENDERING: MALE VICTIMS AND VICTIMS IN SAME GENDER RELATIONSHIPS INVISIBLE! 

I WOULD SAY THAT: TERF's DO NOT DESERVE TO BE CALLED - "FEMINISTS" AS IT IS AN INSULT TO THE SISTERS THAT CAME BEFORE THEM - AND DID ALLL THE: - "HEAVY LIFTING/WORK" - RISKING THEIR FREEDOMS And indeed their very LIVES! 

I AM SO BOLD , THAT I STATE THAT: PERHAPS THE TERF's ARE NOT AS MUCH PRO-WOMEN AS THEY ARE ANTI-MEN! 

WELL IMNSHO: - "MISANDRY IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO MISOGYNY"! TWO WRONGS DOESN'T SUM UP TO ONE RIGHT - IT IS TWICE AS WRONG! 

AS MANY, PERHAPS EVEN MOST SWEDISH MEN: GEN X OR YOUNGER! I HAVE CONSIDERED MYSELF A PROUD FEMINIST !

THEN CAME THE TERFS! WIDESPREAD MISANDRY AND OPEN HOSTILITY TOWARDS MEN IN GENERAL - EVEN TOWARDS YOUNG BOYS HOLDING THEM TO UNREASONABLE AND UNFAIR, UNEQUAL STANDARDS - FAVORING GIRLS AND CIS WOMEN IN GENERAL! BUT AS I SAID PREVIOUSLY! 

MISANDRY IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO MISOGYNY! IT IS JUST: - "VENGEANGE/REVENGE" BLAMING/PUNISHING ANY AND EVERY BOY/MALE = TOXIC FEMININITY! 

WELL GUESS WHAT LADIES! MEN HAVE HAD ENOUGH! WHEN THE COST IS TOO HIGH OR IT IS TOO RISKY? THEN WHY INTERACT  WITH WOMEN? WHY BOTHER BONDING WITH A FEMALE IF THE RISKS/COSTS ARE SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER THAN ANY REWARD? MEN ARE OPTING OUT! 

HENCE: The Men Going Their Own Way, Drizzle, Drizzle and Red Pill CIS/HETERO/MONO/VANILLA WOMEN!! 

THE, STRAIGHT MEN - ARE IN DEMAND AND WOMEN ARE BEGINNING TO NOTICE! 

IF I WERE A STOCKBROKER? I WOULD INVEST IN GYMS, SPORTS BARS/TV-NETWORKS AND MANUFACTURERS OF SEX-TOYS FOR MEN! BECAUSE WITH THESE, THEY WILL MOST LIKELY NOT EVEN MISS WOMEN! 

AND I BELIEVE THAT REALISTIC: - "SEX-ROBOTS" - WHEN DEMAND IS HIGH ENOUGH - IS ONLY DECADES AWAY!!! 

CONGRATULATIONS KAREN - YOU HAVE MADE WOMEN OBSOLETE! 

AND I HAVE DECIDED - NOT TO DONATE SPERM - AS A POLITICAL STATEMENT! 

SINGLE MAN! WHENEVER YOU ARE EVEN CONSIDERING TO SAY NO AND WALK AWAY? THEN MOST LIKELY YOU SHOULD!  - IT IS YOUR GUT-INSTINCT TALKING TO YOU! DON'T SIMP! NEVER EVER! 

WHENEVER YOU ENCOUNTER: - "RED FLAGS", LIKE: - TOXIC FEMININITY, MANIPULATION/TESTING, ENTITLEMENT, GUILT-TRIPS, UNCONSENTFUL/UNEXPECTED "DOMINATION TECHNIQUES"/ATTEMPTS, ATTEMPTING TO MAKE YOU SUBMISSIVE/SUBSERVIENT WITHOUT ANY CONSENT OR AGREEMENT! 

JUST WALK AWAY, NEVER SIMP, YOU CAN DO BETTER! -THEY HAVE DISQUALIFIED THEMSELVES, THEY ARE NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! 

WHEN YOU WALK AWAY: I SUGGEST THE: - "SCORCHED EARTH , TAKE NO PRISONERS APPROACH - LEAVE NOTHING BEHIND TACTIC/PHILOSOOPHY"... YOU HAVE BECOME THE PRISE! THE REWARD AND THE END GOAL! - BE AWARE AND ACT LIKE IT! 

HOWEVER LATELY I HAVE HAD THE SAD EXPERIENCE OF MULTIPLE WOMEN, WHO I BELIEVED COULD BECOME CLOSE FRIENDS, FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS OR MORE! 

TURNED OUT THAT THEY: - "WERE ONLY AFTER MY BODY", OR AT LEAST PART OF IT! 

BUT WHEN I REALISED THAT THEIR INTEREST WAS ENTIRELY EGOISTIC - ONLY FOCUSED ON THEIR ENJOYMENT AND PLEASURE! COMPLETELY DISINTERESTED AND IN MY PLEASURES OR ENJOYMENT - WITH ZERO RECIPROCITY! THEY DISQUALIFIED THEMSELVES! 

IF ONLY I COULD... I WOULD TURN TO MEN AND GIVE UP ON WOMEN! 

BECAUSE GAY FRIENDS ARE HAPPPIER AND STATISTICALLY GAY MALE COOUPLES ARE THE HAPPIEST. DIVORCING LEAST, LEAST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND HIGHEST REPORTED HAPPINESS IN THEIR LONGTERM RELATIONSHIPS! 

BUT ALAS - SO FAR I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE WITH A MALE! 

BUT IT IS MY PERSONAL BELIEF THAT LOVE IS ABOUT PERSONALITY AND INTERPERSONAL: "CHEMISTRY", NOT GENDER! SO WHO KNOWS? 

BUT AT THE MOMENT I AM QUITE SCEPTICAL AS IT COMES TO CIS FEMALES! 

I DO HOWEVER KNOW SOME VERY NICE: NONBINARY AND TRANS PEOPLE!!!

ONLY TIME WILL TELL! 

https://youtu.be/9FpdmabgobE?is=jCqgpOXRAiHnUCtH